About Support Us. Blog: Is Fort Wayne a good city for singles? Jille Eikenberry Wednesday, September 11, What is it actually like to be single in Fort Wayne? Depending on what magical combination of luck and appeal with which one may be blessed, most humans will suffer the slings and arrows of this common social convention. And generally, in our society, at least, most people view this dating as a means to an end.
At some point, usually somewhere in or near your 30s, there is an expectation to have met someone with whom you finally "settle down. Is it me? Is it them? Is it bum luck? Could the answer to all my dating woes lie here, in Fort Wayne? As it turns out, my guess was not too far from the truth. Apparently, Fort Wayne is one of the worst places in Indiana for singles , coming in 59 spots behind Indianapolis, which itself already sits low at position Where do Fort Wayne singles go to meet people?
But what actually constitutes a promising dating scene? In San Francisco, it is easy and common to live single and happy with little pressure to be anything else, and there are still quite a few single men to date. But those men also have a plethora of smart, independent, creative, attractive, down-to-earth women to choose from. And with so much choice, why would anyone focus on just one for any significant amount of time?
In a city where the desire for monogamy can sometimes feel like an almost prudish notion, the potential of meeting someone actually looking to commit is tantalizing. If nothing else, the men in Fort Wayne most likely would be of the more traditional mindset, and even if boring, as my San Francisco mind is always sure to prejudge , surely it would be easier to find someone willing to commit there than in heretical San Francisco?
Yet, the truth still exists that in Fort Wayne the actual size of the pool from which to choose diminishes significantly. If I thought it was hard meeting single people my age in San Francisco, Fort Wayne must be a dating desert.
