When you're engaged to somebody and are set to get married in the near future, there are a lot of big decisions that you'll need to make as a couple. For example, where do you plan to live? How much money do you want to save up each month? When do you want children? These are practical questions that are important for any couple to discuss.
But if you're both Christians, there's another significant question that you may need to figure out:. If you're both already attending the same church, than this would likely be a non-issue. But the problem arises if you attend different churches. In some situations, the solution is simple. If one of you attends a church that teaches the Bible while the other attends the church that teaches heresy, then you should probably attend the Bible one.
Or if one of you is a member of your church while the other is a visitor of theirs, then it makes sense to attend the member's church.
Or if one of you loves your community while the other isn't fond of theirs, maybe attend the church that's loved. But what do you do if both of you attend relatively solid, biblical churches? What if you're both committed members of your church? What if you both love your community and want the other person to join your church? If you're a Christian couple and this is your situation, whose church should you go to?
It seems like the logical answer to this problem would be to simply go to the better church. But the problem is that this is often difficult to gauge.
