However, after doing some soul-searching and making a decision that I would like to revisit dating people within the kink community, I turned my eyes to Feeld , a dating app created for poly and ethically nonmonogamous ENM folx.
As you know , I have been in the lifestyle for almost a decade. Making a profile on Feeld was straightforward. Similar to other apps, you upload photos and write a bio of up to characters in length. The features that make Feeld profiles unique are that you can make photos private and FYI, this feature is only for paid members.
Feeld does not allow nudes or sexually explicit images, but a lot of people use this feature to make face pictures available for matches , and the app even provides you with tips on what type of photos to include and what photos can be legally shown on profiles. I like the fact that Feeld is very inclusive of different identities because most of the aforementioned apps were not.
This in itself gave me more hope that this app was not cishet male-centric after all. The only issue I had with making a profile is that it glitches and is quite buggy. For example, when trying to input my birthday, Feeld put the wrong date, and I had to contact IT and wait about one to two months for it to be rectified.
Out of all the apps, I find that Feeld offers the most comprehensive paid membership option. If I were to give my two cents, I personally do not like how the paid subscription has all the privacy settings. It feels like you are purchasing access to privacy. I think that all members, regardless of subscription level, should be able to make their profiles as private or public as they wish. In terms of my experiences on this app, I will say that using Feeld has been pretty okay⦠for the most part.
