One of the most important aspects of human sexuality is the physical touch. We kiss, caress, explore through touch and, when in a sexual situation, this is connected to the sex act itself. Sensual massage can be a prelude to or standalone activity of exploration, discovery, enjoyment and connection. It heightens the entire sexual experience as well as teaches patience and communication.
In a sensual massage, you must consider and seduce all the senses. Sight, sound, taste, smell and touch. Warning: This is not the same as a therapeutic or Swedish massage. The massage surface is also important. Another option is to put a chaise lounge pad on your dining room table weight limits do apply as this can be the perfect height.
Place a large towel a beach towel works on top of the surface. Support her body with pillows: When she is lying prone, place two bed pillows under the towel; one under the chest and one under the ankles, so her neck and low back will relax. When she is supine, place pillows under head and knees. Offer her a sip of whatever beverage you have prepared and a taste of the treat. A romantic favorite is chocolate-dipped strawberries and champagne, but you know your partner, so be creative.
The whole body is a erogenous zone. Explore every nook and cranny. Respectfully get curious about her. If you know she loves her feet rubbed, take your time and tell her you are doing so. Let her know that you want to please her. Ask her to let you know when you are doing so in whatever way she is comfortable expressing her pleasure.
Then carefully listen for verbal clues that she is enjoying herself. Also, those physical signs, like goose bumps or nipples hardening, can be pleasure clues as well. Appeal to all of her senses by talking softly to her during the massage. Tell her how much you love touching her body, how soft her skin feels, how beautiful she looks, how just touching her turns you on.
