You need to have been registered for 7 days to post in the Sex forum. Any other suggestions for meeting like minded people? I think I would prefer a FWB but not sure how to go about it? I not that confident. It's a hook up site. Lots of married men on there and kinks, but once you weedle out the nasties, I found a few decent men I was happy to meet up with.
Then meet up, see if you like somebody, and see if there's a match in what you're hoping for. Are the any situations where you could meet people in real life? Interest groups, evening classes etc? Or, i travel a lot for work and once in a while, that works for me. Then you experience the chemistry and see what you are getting. Or, do you have a suitable single friend, there is nothing wrong with having sex with a friend, providing you both know the score and a real friendship also comes with trust.
Now bring on the name calling. If you join Bumble, there are plenty of men using the "sex positivity" symbol - very easy to identify them. There are now "real live" events being arranged specifically for singles as people begin to realise the pitfalls of internet hook-ups.
I was clear in my bio that I wasn't looking for really kinky sex, more of a vanilla FWB situation. I had to filter out a lot of men but it was worth it for me. Choose profiles where they actually say something about themselves other than their sexual preferences. This was a green flag for me. My policy is to always do a video call before meeting, and then do a 'date' so you get to meet them in person before being in a bedroom situation. Be safe, tell someone where you are, and if it doesn't feel right trust your gut.
If there's some kind of singles night near you though, give it a try. There was nothing near me at all. Log in to update your newsletter preferences. I'm mid-forties, and get lot of likes from younger men so I assume lot of them would be after something like this. I put some body photos with underwear as my public pictures, then I had some face photos which were only visible to people who matched x.
