Hi, I need some advice please. I got into his account and he has sent various messages back and forth, it makes me feel sick. I always had an inkling he was watching porn but this is taking it to another level. He is not one to talk things through which makes things more difficult but said it was because I continuously knocked him back when he wanted sex which I fully admit I did.
He has promised wholeheartedly that he has never cheated physically with another woman and I do believe him. Cam girls also cross a line for me. It's so close to using a prostitute.
I don't like porn but if he'd used that, you could feel a little bit easier about it. I also question how 'fantastic' a Dad is when he's happy to pay women for their bodies He's interacting with real women to satisfy his sexual urges.
It's cheating. I know I've been in relationships where I thought I trusted them, but after analysing it deep down I knew that trust was misplaced. I'd have been ok with a little porn I think.
I don't know what cam girls is but guess it's based on interaction. I'd be worried about the power dynamic fueling the interaction and as it must be real people, personally that'd be a gut punch for me. I'm sorry you're going through this. However you proceed, he's being careless with your feelings and that needs to be acknowledged.
