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I never saw this coming! A series of events led me to where I was best suited. When you hit the sweet spot, it contains everything you know and learned before. Most women have become mute. Butβ¦staying mute keeps us from getting what we want.
Strategically say what you need to say. Know what you want. Imagine how you want to interact with your partner. Do you want exclusivity or not? Live with someone? How do you share it? Lay it out there on a first date and in your profile.
Wrap it in a diplomatic way. The one who blows hot and cold as a cycle is using a training methodology. You engage the ego. You start chasing. They come closer and distance again. In a real hot and cold player, you will not get the attention you got at the beginning again.
And we buy this behavior over and over again. Tell them you like them, but the hot and cold thing is not working for you. Ask them to be consistent. If they can, great.
