It often seems like the de facto BDSM image is a female submissive, and I generally feel no urge to add to that skewed perspective. That said, BDSM can be a very positive influence in peoples lives and, as this Guardian article makes clear , a dominatrix can be an effective life coach. The article is by Sofia Barrett-Ibarria and describes how she hired LA based pro-domme Justine Cross to bring some structure and direction to her life. Based on this account it seems to have worked.
I love mean, beautiful women, and I love when they boss me around. I wonder if I could pull off a similar trick? Maybe tie my next session into finally clearing out my spare room and scrubbing the shower in the bathroom?
This is from her social media feed. You can find her professional website here. It looks like it was quite the show.
Mistress Natsukiss is performing with Aoi. You can see more shots from the evening in the twitter feeds of Club Pedestal and Derek Schiavo. Also a shoutout to Sardax and Mistress Nana for their contributions to what looks like an amazing evening. That often gets cut short. In corporal sessions I frequently find that spanking is generally treated as a warm up in itself. As Ms Martinet makes clear, even a straightforward hand spanking requires a proper warm up period to get the submissive into the right mental and physical space.
I had a couple of insightful comments on my last post that attributed my small number of unsatisfying session experiences to the type of dommes I play with.
