Anyone who has spent time around guys knows that all guys love a good blowjob. They think that by whipping out their man piece, the girl will just magically want to put it in her mouth. However, there may be an underlying reason, and it could mean a multitude of things. Virginity means different things to everyone. To some, oral sex is just as intimate as losing their virginity to penetrative sex. Oral sex may even be considered more intimate to some. So for this reason, a woman might be put off by the idea of giving you a blowjob.
A penis is something men use to pee with, everyone is aware of that. A woman might be hesitant about giving a blowjob because of possible urine contamination. It might smell bad or even taste bad.
If it were the other way around, any man would agree. If you are with a narcissist or in a toxic relationship, your partner may be holding off giving you a blowjob as a power play tactic.
This is a mind game where she may use a blowjob against you to get something that she wants. The mouth and throat are not as versatile as the vagina. Penises can be a pain for some women and they will refuse to put them in their mouths. It can hurt and even cause a woman to gag. Women look at a penis the way men look at breasts. If it does not appeal to her, she will not want to put it in her mouth.
Therefore if she does not like the way it looks, she may get turned off by the idea of giving you a blowjob. Maybe something happened that caused her to have a bad memory attached to the act.
