He says he loves me, and everything should be fine. I thought I was the only girl in his life. He tells me that he still loves me but that he also loves her. He says that if I can be patient, his confusion will pass and the situation will resolve itself. What can I do? You get to keep a liar and a cheat until his next confusion attack!
This is not about how in love you are, or even his confusion. It is about respect, trust, communication and honesty. Catherine: Let me guess: You feel attached to him. You care for him deeply. You see your unborn children in his eyes. You need to end this relationship now. You have discovered that your entire relationship is based on lies and unfaithfulness. His behavior will never change. He says he is confused.
Clarify the situation and let him know that you are no longer an option for him. There are plenty of men who will respect you with honesty and commitment. You may go through a painful withdrawal period when you break up, but you can then look forward to times with a man who truly treats you like the only woman for him. Lily: This guy has played the two of you because you have allowed it. No one who truly loves you would test you this way.
Put an end to this drama and work on mending your broken heart. Instead, chalk it up to a learning experience and never let anyone disrespect you like this again. Consejos is a bilingual advice column focused on relationships, culture and identity. E-mail your questions or comments to consejos dallasnews. More in Lifestyle.
