Wicked Grounds is one of my favorite places to get coffee because not only is it a kinky cafe, but they also have an annex for BDSM workshops and educational meetup groups. Plus, what other coffee shop will let you come in on a leash and drink your latte from a dog bowl?
Stop in for a coffee they have vegan options too! Not in the Bay Area? No problem! Wicked Grounds also hosts online virtual classes every month. It is a beautiful space for all of your kinky scenes. You can book themed rooms to play in either with your partner or with groups. They even have some equipment you can use, but you can also bring your own. When playing at any dungeon, always follow the principles of safe, sane, and consensual.
They provide toys and equipment, but you can also bring your own. This hedonistic event happens every September and truly is one big party, with lots of live music and dancing.
Just be sure to bring sunscreen. Power Exchange is a pretty wild adult night club. They have lots of areas for play, including three different floors and lots of free condoms. There are themed nights, like Ladies nights, and Couples Only nights, and they can be a lot of fun. If exhibition or voyeurism is your kink, this is the place to be. You can also block off your private BDSM space with a chain though, and a nice feature is they have lockers where you can store your gear. They host events and classes by vetted mentors.
You can even become a member so you can go to their yearly private party. They are a great resource for gaining quality education in the BDSM lifestyle and I highly recommend them. If you want to meet others in the kink community this is a great social group to participate in. They host play parties, educational classes, and have a very welcoming community.
