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The lowdown on the partner-swapping lifestyle. Male, 35, Lakeview I was at a party at a club and someone said there was a private party in the VIP room, a swinger party.
I was approached by some people there. I just felt as if it was the wildest, craziest thing you would ever do. If they want to mess around with girls, then they do. You have etiquette. The first time, I had the same nervousness as with any other girl. Am I going to perform?
Is she going to like me? When I was with a couple for the first time, I was worried whether everybody was going to have fun.
But then I found somebody I really liked, and we were both into it. I wanted to do what that person wanted to do. I suggest getting into it with somebody else. In the summertime, it tends to be better in Chicago because you have out-of-towners. People in the swinger lifestyle are the safest people possible. Go to a site where you have to be approved by somebody or certified by other members. Google Chicago lifestyle for websites. If you Google swinging , you get some of the cheesier stuff.
