Some forums can only be seen by registered members. View detailed profile Advanced or search site with Search Forums Advanced. Why do some women expect a guy to stay friends with them after they reject your advance? Am I the only guy who doesn't find this idea appealing? It's like rubbing some good smelling food in your face, but you are told that you can't have any What are we going to talk about?
You could talk about nothing more or less than you would if you were dating the woman. If you date someone, you generally have to talk to them outside of sex. Now if you just wanted to sleep with the woman, and she turned down NSA sex, then that question makes more sense. But, in any case some people- it's not just women, say staying friends just to be nice. There's nothing wrong in that. But there's also nothing wrong in rejecting their friendship due to not wanting to be strictly platonic with someone you're attracted to.
So, if someone offers friendship after rejection, just kindly decline and move on. It usually means they want to stay friendly. A simple smile and "Hey, how's it going" as you pass one another. No hard feelings. When people just go cold and act like they've never met, it's an indication that they are either immature and want to be hurtful or only wanted a sex doll.
This is assuming the person who said "no" wasn't cruel--in which case, good riddance. Originally Posted by JustJulia. Originally Posted by VanillaChocolate. Originally Posted by homeboi. I'm completely find with that part, but don't expect me to do you any favor beyond that. Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life. I really don't think that most women who say this do expect favors.
It's just a "nice" way to say no. Urban Sasquatch. As with all things, it really depends on the people involved and the rejection. There is no catch-all formulaic answer to how or why people say and feel the things they do.
