If you have been reading my writing regularly, you probably have noticed how often money comes up as a subject of discussion when I talk about relationships. Obviously, in a normal relationship, money will be an issue. If you have too little money, problems really get ugly. Most arguments in marriage are caused by money problems and financial woes are a leading cause of divorce. On the other hand, too much money leads to other issues. But what about the kinds of relationships that literally have men paying women off for temporary companionships, such as the relationship between escorts and their clients?
Escorts are paid to keep things confidential , to sleep with men, and also to provide companionship. I also had a feeling that they probably knew men better than most others do. A : Guys who buy escorts are looking for a fantasy, plain and simple. A: Most of the men I serviced were married or in committed relationships.
They ran the gamut from the nerdy office guy to the high-powered lawyer, to the frumpy husband who has three kids.
They have dirty diapers to change, they have a nagging wife at home, they have work stress The illusion of control is another thing they like about escorts. They get to control the fantasy. They decide what you two do. A: Not what most women would expect. I dressed in office attire or slightly revealing attire. I kept things upscale, so I often just looked like any other girl attending a cocktail party. They really wanted the girl next door.
Q: You said that these guys were often in relationships. Did you ever really get any insight into why they cheated? A: Absolutely. They want more, more, and more. They think they deserve more because they have more money or whatever, and they go for it. Others feel like they do all this stuff for everyone else, so seeing an escort is their own little treat.
