Why do men want casual sex with no commitment? Bobbi, 48, of Anaheim, a widow of five years, asked why older guys only want sex, and after the sex, leave - never to be heard from again. Normally, men don't speak up about dating issues, but sex is one topic they're willing to discuss. One Huntington Beach man, requesting anonymity, said, "I'm always amused at the 'surprise' women report when the men they date want sex. Here's a bulletin for females in that category: Men date to get sex!
That's not all that bad, because for lots of guys like me, that's the minimum relationship requirement. Mason, San Francisco, who is writing a book on middle-age dating, e-mailed, "Women need to realize that when men leave after having sex, it isn't because of the sex. They would have left anyway. Any man that has true attraction for a woman will stay.
Sex is not the issue, it's simply the fact that he determined that she's not the right woman. Mason shared a theory on why women shouldn't delay having sex. Then, she has lost six months or more of her life, is emotionally involved and will need even more time to recover.
John, formerly of Orange County, now living in Washington, D. Forming a firm basis first to develop a lasting commitment makes the sex part much more special and the wait more than worth it. Women shared their opinions on Bobbi's question.
Because they can," said Lynn, Dana Point. Kathy of Aliso Viejo said, "Women get short-sighted and connect sex with love. Men don't associate sex with love like we do! Sandi of Tustin wrote, "Men are hard-wired so differently from women. I think by now we know sex is uppermost in men's thinking process. Former county resident Monica e-mailed from Florida, "The issue that men only want sex, and if you don't give in right away they don't call back after the first date, is the No.
