But even though it is common to see these acronyms floating around online, open discussions on hook-up culture in Singapore are still far from common. We asked 4 millennials to open up about their casual sex experiences, awkward Tinder encounters and share their thoughts on hook-up culture in Singapore. He was really into it, so I just went along with it. When he pulled out, he pulled the condom off and came.
He was freaked out, embarrassed and wanted to head to the doctor ASAP. I booked us a cab, dropped him off at the clinic and went home. I do pity him though, I would have died of embarrassment if I came blood. The year-old reveals that her friends have a mutual understanding that hook-up culture is normal. The older generation believes that sex should only be with your lifetime partner, which we do not agree with. Lastly, she advises that hooking up is not for everyone.
Enjoy yourself, love yourself and love your body for what it is. Phyo has been hooking up with others on and off for a few years now. The year-old usually finds his hook-up partners on dating apps, through friends of friends and at clubs pre-pandemic, of course. Interestingly, he reveals that some of his partners eventually developed feelings for him, and others have even become his close friends. As such, he makes sure not to sleep with multiple partners during the same period.
He is now in a committed relationship. While waiting for the right one, he decided to have a little fun. His regular hook-ups introduced him to some partners, but he mostly found them through dating apps. While he preferred to engage in some conversation first, if the other party got straight to the point, he would reciprocate. His main priorities were using proper protection and communication. Condoms and lube are a must. I was down to try anything as long as [it was] done safely and with consideration.
STDs were a natural concern of course. Also, there is always a risk of, will I come home alive? Matthew feels that Singapore as a society is now starting to be more open-minded, especially among the younger generation. He adds that almost every person he knows personally has either had sex or has hooked up with a stranger once or twice. But it can also take a great toll on your emotional and mental health. It is simply not for everyone, and that is perfectly okay.
