Les couples sont les bienvenues. Je n'aime pas le SM, les pratiques anals et les demandes bizzares c'est refus d'office! Sorry OP but what the others already said--she is dating this other guy. I strongly suspect that what this woman told you about her horrible marriage holding her back was just to keep you at an arms length all along.
I know what you mean about the dreams too I have terrible dreams. They are heavy and graphic and I wake up feeling depressed and with headaches. I can get up and wander around in this daze and then after coffee and reading some email, I am better. Sometimes the dream can stay with me all day. But I am so emotionally wrapped up in these negative feelings that I amnot switching off when I go to bed at night.
And the EX is there and she is looking pretty and trying to compete with me and I cannot find my make up or I look ugly etc etc You always act like you don't know what's going on. Are you really that clueless? She talked to the guy and got him to back off. He said "that he'd back off, but to not take the connotation that there was something to back up from as he was keen to avoid introducing the 'friendship or relationship' question, which would infer there being a question to answer.
He also said that without doing so would be to further heighten tensions". Based on how it went down, you beat around the bush a bit and could have been more assertive.
Most likely she got bored. Unfortunately a lot of women these days have really short attention spans. That's why I say throw out all the afraid to look needy crap, and just get to the point. Girls that you like you won't care, and it helps eliminate the girls that are wasting your time. Rainy, I am late.. I honestly can't stand that channel.
