Last week, I answered a reader question about anal sex and hemorrhoids. This week, we'll continue our exploration of the intricacies of anal play by tackling a question about butt-plug usage:. What concerns might there be if one were to use butt plugs over long durations?
As in, only removing when necessary? Butt plugs are toys designed to be inserted into the anus and left in place rather than moved in and out with a thrusting motion as one might use a dildo. Wearing a plug can create a sensation of fullness that can be pleasant during other types of play oral sex or vaginal penetration, for instance or all by itself. Many people like to wear butt plugs for extended periods of time. Some will wear a plug during their daily activities, like going to work or running errands, to add a dimension of fun and naughtiness to their routines.
It can be a thrill to have a "secret" that no one in your office knows about! Other people wear a plug to prepare for anal play later in the day, using the plug to get the anus accustomed to penetration and to generate excitement. Stay on top of the news of the day Subscribe to our free, daily e-newsletter to get Milwaukee's latest local news, restaurants, music, arts and entertainment and events delivered right to your inbox every weekday, plus a bonus Week in Review email on Saturdays.
There is a general consensus among sexuality educators that wearing a plug for hours should cause no harm, as long as the user follows the general rules of anal play: Use lubricant, go slow and pay attention to your body's signals. If you are interested in wearing a plug for hours at a time, it's best to work up to this by gradually leaving the plug in place for longer and longer periods each time you wear itβdon't try to go for 10 hours on the first attempt.
Also, if you are experiencing pain or discomfort, remove the plug, even if it means that you don't reach your goal. It's always important to use lube during anal play, but this is even more important when wearing a plug for a long period of time. Water-based lubricants will eventually dry up or be absorbed by the body and should be reapplied to prevent discomfort and chafing from the plug.
