During my 9 years in NYC, I noticed how difficult and lonely this city can be especially for single girls. All my friends were beautiful, smart and yet they were all single. Most friends who moved out of NY , got married within a year. Then I slowly started to realize why NYC was such a difficult place for girls to be in a relationship. Dating in New York is extremely tough for a girl for the following six reasons:.
There are about 3 girls to every guy in NYC, therefore, if you are a girl, you will have to fight for the guys. Girls in NY do fight for their men. It happened to me so many times that I was at a bar with a good looking guy and a girl walked up to him even though I was there.
These girls completely ignore the fact that the guy is with another girl. They like a guy and they go for him. If you are not so assertive, you have no chance of getting or keeping a guy.
There are an insane amount of women seeking men in NY. In this city, people work hard and play even harder. Many people go out every night and they enjoy a drink or two.
After a couple of drinks, people tend to hook up. This phenomenon happens everywhere in the World, because people are people, however in NY, I saw guys and girls doing this all the time, some even do this multiple times a week.
