Yet, the boys I met were mainly from fraternities and we often would only hang out for a few incidental moments, with our time mostly filled with him talking about how extraordinary he was.
Not asking to go on a date, but to merely hang out at his place or meet him at some social gathering, where he drank so much alcohol prior to seeing me that he could barely remember my name. Then despite any drinking impairment he may have had, he always immediately tried to get me alone with him, while his friends gave us sly glances and held up their beers in a congratulatory manner. Quickly, I would try to make any dire excuse to evacuate the area, with the boy furiously looking at me since I had refused to be his new sexual object for the night.
It seems that no matter where I turn, the dating world seems to be gorged with boys who deeply desire nothing but sex. Instead, relying on meaningless sex to satisfy their sexual urges. With this hookup culture in place and empowered by free dating apps like Tinder, society seems to have destroyed traditional dating. Now individuals impatiently judge if one is worthy to date or have sex with merely by their initial appearance. Dating apps are structured in a format to cater to the user, which in turn brings people to constantly regard their potential partners in a perspective of what he or she can do for them, while also serving as a symbol that there might always be someone more attractive or better than their current companion.
You need to be careful with your feelings. Think of it as dipping a toe into the water β you only put in your toe, not your whole body. But, with not going public or giving commitment to the other person, brings in the issue of others trying to get with your person.
Well, the answer is: as many as you can keep up with. Think of it like a baseball team β if you strike out with one of them, you still have a ton more to go through. No wcw or mcm, because those special hashtags are reserved for only the people you date. And, by the time you finish reading this article, I hope you see how truly dumb this entire setup is. Are you one of those people that gets super upset when you miss out on anything?
