She lives miles away but is willing to travel. Time is short and my friends and workmates are dying. What should I do? Definitely go for it, says Rupert Smith. To imagine at the age of 50 that anything at all in life has no strings attached is whimsical — if you continue with this plan there will be consequences. Greed — and desire is a kind of greed — makes us vulnerable to scams because it makes us so urgently want to believe what we would otherwise dismiss as completely improbable.
If you have the courage, sit down with your partner and tell her you are struggling — not with the fantasy of a fling, that would be too painful for her — but with the truth. You may realise that you are more than a body, looking for kicks to feel good about yourself and that you are a loving partner who took the trouble to get some advice before launching himself on a haphazard adventure.
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