Dear Amy: I am a year-old guy dating a phenomenal girl who ultimately will not capture my heart. Going out with her is always a pleasure, and both of us also enjoy quiet nights alone together. How should I let her know that my feelings for her have peaked and that they are not high enough?
Put pins through your eyes. Give yourself a Frito Bandito mustache and a Nehru jacket. Rip up your movie ticket stubs and litter them onto the floor. You need to have a talk with this woman in order to revisit your relationship. You may learn that your phenomenal friend has grown to like you more than makes you comfortable. You could use that. By the way, on my nightstand, I have pictures of Winston Churchill, my grandfather, and my late, great tabby cat, Pumpkin.
Is it possible that he visited it by mistake? Should I tell my mom about this find? Of course your father could have visited this site by mistake. He also could have visited it on purpose. Maybe your mom already knows about it and is fine with it. His friend, Mel, from work, could have used his laptop β just as you did β and checked out this site. Your mother also could have used his laptop and visited the site. Some men do check out porn sites. Men frequently tell me that porn is really no big deal to them, but it is a big deal to you.
The person to talk to about this is your father β not your mom. I know that this would be a hard conversation to have with him, but you should tell him exactly what happened and ask him whatever questions you need to ask. I hope that your dad will be compassionate and kind to you and reassure you that everything is all right with him and with your family.
Dear Amy: I was recently invited to attend a bridal shower for someone whom I would consider an acquaintance. I know her by participating in a mutual hobby. The bridal shower was being hosted by three of her friends at a nice, suburban, private country club. What do you think? Send questions via e-mail to askamy tribune. Michigan Ave. Previous columns are available at chicagotribune. By Chicago Tribune. More in News.
