Not Senior in high school or college. Senior means, we get discounts at stores, Medicare, and our own parking spaces. Makes us sound so feeble and needy, but we absolutely are not. I mean senior as in after 65, wiser, and better. Although men who plan to date women over 60 may find my advice entertaining, I am writing to advise other senior women like me who are dating or considering the possibility of dating.
Keep in mind that you are attracting the exact man that wants to get married or have a relationship for the same reasons. Your reasons for having a man in your life will reverberate in the man that comes into your life.
I am all about weighing all my options, but it is impossible from the human vantage point to know all options, thus how can I possibly determine the right mate? Blind date. One of your new friends in Fairhope has a single male friend whom she says is a great guy, very intellectual, and knows wine.
This could mean he is a single man who is a good trivia regurgitator and can choose from all wines housed in a box. Best case scenario: he is smart and a fine wine collector. A friend swears about online dating having met her husband on a dating site. Have you met her husband? Best case scenario: after joining a dating site, you meet the love of your life. Medium case scenario: you have several nice conversations via email and phone until deciding to meet when you discover he posted year-old photos of himself, lied about his height and financial status, and does not take rejection well.
Worst case scenario: he turns out to be an ax murderer and the relationship ends abruptly. A nice man befriends you on the pickleball courts and asks you out. Best case scenario: you have so much in common that you establish an easy close relationship. Medium case scenario: you have nothing in common other than pickleball.
